Thanks Neffer. My L said shes just upset because im doing well without her and I am moving on. L said he sees this behavior a lot. The WWS wants the LBS to fail because that would help with their justification. When they see the LBS flourishing and being prepared they get jealous and mad.

Although I have detached for the most part. I am sad that my MR ended the way it did. I truly loved that woman. I truly expected to live the rest of my life with her.

So the D going through is very bittersweet. I do miss my wife. The wife that was before all of this behavior. But I know now that she never truly loved me. She never gave her all. I am content with my effort prior to all of this. I am a man that a fool left.

But I know my value and love myself fully. My ex wife wont take that from me.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019