Thanks Neffer. My L said shes just upset because im doing well without her and I am moving on. L said he sees this behavior a lot. The WWS wants the LBS to fail because that would help with their justification. When they see the LBS flourishing and being prepared they get jealous and mad.
Although I have detached for the most part. I am sad that my MR ended the way it did. I truly loved that woman. I truly expected to live the rest of my life with her.
So the D going through is very bittersweet. I do miss my wife. The wife that was before all of this behavior. But I know now that she never truly loved me. She never gave her all. I am content with my effort prior to all of this. I am a man that a fool left.
But I know my value and love myself fully. My ex wife wont take that from me.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019