I'm only in the beginning of this mess. Withdrawn - check. No sex - check. Affairs - check. ILYBINILWY - check. BD - check.

She's still here until she gets a job.

Trying to BD. It [censored]. The kids love when I get home, but not her any longer.

I'd like to be on the other side.

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"