The number stuff is my fault. I think he'll come around on that. When he was pulling away, I pursued with a vengeance. I was texting him like a mad woman and hounding him at work, telling him he was being "this" and "that" and I would leave, etc. He told me last night that he was starting to feel jumpy every time he had a text. He said he thinks I am changing, but that it was a bit hard for him at the time. He joined his mom's plan, and I suspect that since he told her about them she might not want me to have that number. We will see if this changes. I'm trying to be positive about the baby steps in our relationship.