If you can't beat em, cheat em (thread 2)

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I do agree that she's gone, so I'm not willing to push them underground until I have the evidence collected that I need, though, which is why I'm staying the course. Based on what I've discussed with legal counsel, I know what I need, and I don't quite have it yet. I have what I need for myself personally to know what she's doing, but I have to be ready for the fallout. I would prefer to move forward with rocking the boat, and I've had to stop and remind myself to play the slow game for now.

So what I mean here is that its inevitable that once I get things squared away I'm going to start making moves and odds are that it's going to result in divorce, so I've accepted that. The only thing that might cause me to consider reconciliation is how things play out. If she doesn't take ownership of her actions, etc. then I'm not going to want to reconcile. Might not anyways...I'm worth more than that. She's almost repellent to me now that I know what she's done and who she's become.