There is absolutely NO reason for him to lie to me and be this open. He has been staunchly opposed to working on the marriage until now and filed for divorce. I am being guarded and trying not to be too hopeful, but I don't see how this just makes be a plan B. If he doesn't work at it, then I will move on.

I am still going to keep working on the marriage and hopefully he is 100% into it. I still think the mother issue is his deal.

And yes, I have heard of the attraction. I don't see him doing anything like that. I have worried though because he says when they touch he feels an electric current. That does seem a little strange!