Originally Posted by si13
W took another shot at me this morning. Please help me identify why this rubs me the wrong way.

But as I was walking out, my W says, "like the kind of note you used to write to me."

WTF??????

My take: she’s justifying to herself why she’s leaving. Don’t take the bait. It’s not about you. She’s not seeking a reaction. She’s angry and justifying to herself her decisions.

My W got angry recently because I stayed home to watch my sick D5. At first I thought “oh she’s recognizing change” but really she’s mad that I’m changing. She doesn’t want to feel guilty. She wants no doubt. She’s not happy about my changes, it doesn’t fit her narrative.