So why is he asking for a separation then. You are in denial.And you are hanging on words.

Words are cheap. Actions speak louder than words.

If he were coming back, he'd end all legal proceedings. If he were coming back, you'd know without any confusion or doubt. You say he wants you and is coming back, based on words ONLY because that is what you want to believe. Many a LBS has played nice because the WAS started to be "nice"...say the "right things"....and then WHAM! They not only got D'd but got destroyed in the proceedings by conceding too much in the name of trying to "nice" them back,

DO NOT let him just come back without putting work in. If you do you will be right back here in a very short time. Make him EARN his way back. Value yourself MORE than just being his yo-yo. "Come here, come here, come here.....go away, go away, go away......"

You are worth more than being treated like this. Whether you know it or not.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018