My wife and I are getting along nicely. She is not as cold and distant as she used to be. I can absolutely tell something internally is bothering her. Her last comment to me was that she does not have feelings for me, you can't change feelings and that she may never of had feelings for me. As in I was never her soulmate. She also admitted to having thoughts that she was going insane.
Her last therapist appointment was 5 weeks ago. She told her mother she was going today. From all indications she does not have an appointment booked for today. Not sure why she would lie about this and I have no idea whether she plans to see the therapist again or how often.
I feel like someone that has thoughts of going insane should probably see a therapist regularly, as in once a week.
I am not going to discuss this with her but her mom is.
The other issue is "detaching". She is communicating with me again, things are pleasant. She told her sister that the last 3 months we have been distancing from each other. How the heck do you detach if this makes her feel more distant.
