Yeah I agree at this point the separation is inevitable. Her mom and her will be moving out in 4 days. They have already gotten a tiny apartment and ordered furniture. I have gone through a transformation since BD and although it’s only been about a month and a half I have made some great consistent changes.
My thinking is that I have been spending time with her while still busy with GAL so she can see my consistent changes and can start seeing me as extremely high value like you mentioned. Then, in 4 days when she moves out, I will be far less available to her. I plan on declining her invitations save for maybe 1 a week, we will see. I plan on really focusing on myself when she moves out and I think she will see that I’m not going to be there for her every call.
I believe from her actions lately, that she thinks I will be open to doing all kinds of things together with her after she moves out, but that will not be the case. I think she intends to cake eat after moving out but that isnt going to happen. Thanks for the information!
