I think I am fixated because this board makes me think about things I would never have thought of before. It makes me more hyper sensitive, more aware. Take your time, be patient, 6 month for kids minimum, etc. I guess I just feel the pressure starting to build.
I think I list her qualities because everyone here is objective and will usually point out things that I hadn't thought of before or potential issues that I am blind to. Everyone has been pretty quiet on her outside of some insecurities and not having a R with her father.
I do see a future and that is what scares me. I think that causes me to analyze things even more.
