It rubs you the wrong way because........you let it.

Detachment is not going through the motions, though practice does make perfect. Fake it until you make it. But you need to let this stuff run off your back like water off a duck. Work on not letting it affect you emotionally.

The friendly cashier method helps with this. Imagine your W, when you interact with her, is like the friendly cashier at the store. If the friendly cashier said the same thing to you, you'd chuckle........(or maybe think she was a little nuts) but once you walked away you wouldn't give it another moment's thought. Treat your W like the friendly cashier...and put as much stock into her words as you would the friendly cashier.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018