Expecting BD soon (Part 2)

[Niall11]

As men we think logically. If we just went to MC for 3-6 months we can fix the marriage. We are both going to suffer financially if we get divorced. Who gets the kids on the holidays?

As women they think emotionally. I am not happy. It is Mr. U that is making mr unhappy. I will never be happy again with him again. That's how she feels now. That can and most likely will change down the road.

Gotta say, this sums up my situation the past few months really well.

U, my W did the same thing. Kept everything bottled up, in her own words "grew cold and hard," decided everything was my fault and she was done without ever once speaking to me openly about any of it. Silent treatment for 2 months, I wanted to know what was going on, and by then she wasn't reachable.

I'll give you the advice I have struggled to follow myself. Listen to the wise elders. DB: GAL as much as possible, 180s, detach. You can't control what she's going to do as far as D. Try not to obsess about it.