Sandi. This is all pure gold. I really appreciate it.

This is shifting gears a bit but wondered what your take was if I discover there is another A. I know it doesn't change anything (although it kills my desire to pursue her anymore).

How do I communicate that I know?







W took another shot at me this morning. Please help me identify why this rubs me the wrong way.

I was getting ready to go to work and take the 2 older kids to school.

My W before I was getting ready to walk out the door motions for me to come close to her. I haven't been giving her hugs, telling her ILY or anything when I leave, just have a good day. Even last night when I went out, she was frustrated I wasn't giving her ANY details of where I was. I told her just out for a drive. "For 2 hours?" Yes. You're being elusive she said.

This morning when she had me come close, she told me there was a boy that gave my daughter a love note. I replied oh boy. My D8 is only in 2nd grade so I'm not loading my shotgun just yet.

But as I was walking out, my W says, "like the kind of note you used to write to me."

WTF??????

Last edited by Cadet; 05/23/19 06:43 PM. Reason: combine posts

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"