waw maybe #5

[bhappy2]

Hello all, its been a while since i have updated thought I would share...

I have been reading all the new threads and sorry to see the same old script.

My GAL has been incredible, roller blading, running, social club, darts... etc. etc. New people in my life and re-establish old frienships that seemingly were lost while I was married. I am closer to my children then I have ever been, and we are actually acting like a family. Helping each other and they are now respecting my boundries, there was a time when W would bad mouth me to the children and over the years it kind of wore them out. They only now can see through her BS. I have not spoken one bad word about their mother to them or anyone else... I am so thankful for this site. Keeping ones mouth shut is the first thing all of us should do.

Court was on Monday as W is fighting for alimony that was already ruled on that there is none. She attempted to fight it and was struck down again. Now before I get into the court case there has been some interesting acts from her...

Right before the lawyers were to meet with the judge my Lawyer comes to me and says, Your W wants me to pass a message along that she doesnt like the fact that you both dont talk anymore and she was hoping you could start communicating again. L then says this is a first for me as she has never been asked by the opposing council and client to do this. I said Ok I have a response you can take back to her: W you are the most meaningless person on this earth to me!!!! My L starts laughing and says you are an ahole... She says I will not go back with that... I said ok then go back with nothing.

I have now scheduled an appraisal for the house and may buy her out bc there will be no alimony. My parents have offered to help with this. I will wait to see all the numbers to see if its worth it, my children of course are pushing for me to buy the house and even offered to pay me rent.

My two sons do not have any relationship with their mother and did not acknowledge mother day. I was not happy about this but I did just mind my own business. Its their choice, they are a bit angry with her.

Oh well, just got done cooking dinner.... will update again soon...btw BD was nearly two years ago and i am still married.... unreal!