Why would they do that if they don't care. I don't get it!
Plan B. Safety net. Ever heard the song "Keep me hanging on"? That is what this is about.
"I am going to go do what I want to do, but every once in a while I'll make sure I could snap my fingers and get her back."
If you were dating him you'd call it "playing games". It really is no different, he is playing games with you, his wife.
This is why you need to drop the fear of him thinking you've completely moved on.....and completely move on. He may come around in time for you to give him one last chance....or he might not. But either way you'll be ok.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
