Hey Steve great to hear from you!! You really felt in your situation it helped her wake up? I hope that I am a little lucky and it helps her to wake up. Obviously this is not a punishment this just happens to be her new reality. It’s not about her wanting me back to help her pay for things but appreciate what I did and that there were times she I said “no” we can’t do something it wasn’t because I didn’t want to but I did it because of financial reasons. All I know is my wife’s “fog” is real thick and it’s going to take time for her to get through it, if she ever does.
It is funny because my W, when a WW, would say things like "I don't want to stay for the wrong reasons". IE because I make good money and she enjoyed the fruits of that labor. Really what she was saying was "I really like all you provide but I want to sleep with other dudes."
I told you that above not to get your hopes up, but to encourage you to keep doing that. Regardless of whether it wakes her up or not, it was the RIGHT thing to do. So many LBSs, LBHs especially, would have ponied up to try to "nice" her back. That never works.
She huffed. She puffed. But she respected you for not just whipping out a credit card.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
