Remember to manage your expectations, don't get your hopes up, and don't believe anything he says and only half of what he does.
He may mean it right now but that can change tomorrow.
I like your mindset.
Absolutely ovrrnbw. I can only control myself. Understanding this is a complete 180 for me as I always felt the need to control everything. It is why I am so reactionary. Reminding myself to take a step back and breathe is helpful. Nothing needs to be taken care of in the moment, we are much more rational if we step back and take the time to really think things through.
I'm sure H will change his mind again and again, he has been for 3 months. I only hope that ending his A will help lift the fog a bit. I am not naive, I know he could run back to her tomorrow, I know I cannot trust him, I have zero expectations at this point- I am not hopeful, yet nor am I hopeless.
