Hey solo! Congrats on making progress through the book. There are some very helpful nuggets in there.
. I had some coaching calls and they were very helpful... for me... not for the marriage. My ex h was and still is in MLC. As you may have read, there really is nothing you can do to move the crisis along. Nothing. While the coaching calls were helpful, nothing I learned would help to “work” on the marriage. My coach, did however, give me personal advice and helped me frame things so that I could move forward on my own and clean up my side of the street and that was immensely helpful.
If your wife is in MLC, the coaching may not help you to work on the marriage, but it could be helpful for you as an individual. I personally found my DB coach more helpful than my ic.
Good luck.
Hi Pax, Just curious... how often did you do them? Thanks!
