Dealing with a WW and getting through divorce 6

[SoTorn]

Thabks everyone.

So I spoke too soon on the STBXWW being nice to me.

I had spoken about setting myself up financially. That meant paying off and consolidating debt. I got a debt consolidation loan. I have the funds in my savings account because after I move out, I am planning on trading my car for something cheaper and then sending the remaining funds off to pay off other debts.

WW owes me a settlement and owes me half the equity.

The STBXWW somehow convinced the bank that she was authorized to access my nee accounts. I never authorized her to do so. She saw that I had the funds in my account and went ballistic.

I had agreed to pay half of the living expenses while I live here. The STBXWW sent me a spreadsheet detailing about a grand a month as an expectation. I have been sending her anywhere between 1200-1500 a month, which is way more than I should be.

When she saw the funds she immediately assumed they were just extra funds. Didnt ask me what they were fore just assumed I had a bunch of extra money.

Then she started saying that I owed her several thousands for other expenses that she has been paying. She started demanding i pay her right now out of that money. I told her that I was paying half as we agreed. She of course disagrees. Its only half based on what she feels is half. So even though she makes nearly three times what I do, owes me a settlement, equity and will be ordered to pay child support she is demanding I give her money.


Thats laughable honestly. She started saying she was going to report me to the courts for not meeting my end of the signed settlement agreement. The agreement that has not been signed by a judge and is therefore not enforceable although its legally binding.

She went off calling me names, telling me I havent changed. She would not relent. I told her that she hasnt paid what she promised in that same settlement and cant just arbitrarily decide what she thinks is half. She cant demand money I dont have. So she just kept threatening me saying she would take me to court. I told her to go ahead and do what she wants.

Im so tired of her trying to control me with threats. She literally owes me money and will owe me child support and thinks im going to cough up several thousand dollars for other expenses on top of everything I have paid.

I held my ground and told her no. She threw the kitchen sink of insults at me. I still said no.

Oh how Waywards think they are right all the time about everything. She thinks she can force me to pay her money that I need to move out but she doesnt have to fulfill her agreement until the judge signs.

I cant wait to get the hell out!!!