Thank you all!

I know sometimes i pay too much attention to details. I also know when i look at the big picture, and at past experiences, we are doing really good and things could be alot worst.

Lately, i have changed my approach. I am taking it easy with her bf.
It seem to pay off for both D16 and her bf. I know they both have alot of respect for me.
D16 is smilling again and is at ease with us.

Positive encouragement= positive feelings= positive choices
Negative critics= retaliation, disconnection, poor choices at times.

It is normal and temporary. The big picture is bright for her.