I would like to get a show of hands and opinions here. I'm curious. This is for self-awareness and personal growth purpose. Where does anger and defensiveness get rooted from and for everyone here and why? For me I've come to the realization that no matter how good my intentions, or for my efforts, my unprovoked anger stems from being misunderstood, especially by those close to me romantic relationships (or lack there of) I'm trying harder everyday to emphasize more with people, and I think I'm doing a fairly good job at it.