THIS IS SOMETHING I'VE NEVER DONE AS I WANTED TO GET AN ANSWER THAT SHE'LL STAY.
In a roundabout way she said she was unsure what she wanted, couldn't guarantee any outcome and didn't want expectation.
In a nutshell this is the difference in the LBH and the WW's mindset. It has not even occurred to her that you aren't biting your nails wondering if she'll stay or leave. And the pitiful thing is....she's right........or are you changing that perception?
WW's are very arrogant. It's all about her (in her opinion) and until you show her differently, she won't ever change.
Sandi - I don't think this felt more true than this morning. Here I have 20 minutes to get ready for work and I feel like I get put to work at home getting stuff for the kids when she gets up too late.
Then when she tells me she works today, she'll need help with the dinner. But the truth is she gets off work to pick up the kids at 2pm and then 3pm but I don't get home until 530pm. Not sure what help she's thinking I'll be at 530pm when she is ALREADY HOME.
I need to re-engage these DBs and get my mind off what SHE is doing and do for myself. I have gotten distracted by what little progress I think I'm seeing on the weekends.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"
