Maika - this is HOME RUN wisdom here. I share a similar schedule issue with Unchien. I'm at work all day, W is SAHM mostly and when the time comes up for GAL, I'm about ready for bed. I try to rise early and get my quiet time/prayer in which has helped tremendously.

I've fallen in love with working out again, tinkering in the garage, taking extended hikes with my dog and spending time with the kiddos.

Journey of Rediscovery. I am enough. What things do I want to do? The sky's the limit.

I realized this weekend as my W was clearing out her closet, she has about 3-4x the amount of clothing I do. I always prioritized that for her. Well, now I need to do that for me. Look good, feel good.

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"