Thank you Hurt213. I truly appreciate the support. I have not completely lost hope, I am just at the end of my rope. The refusal to end the affair is a deal breaker for me. I know most couples who physically separate do not reconcile, but in order to take care of myself I am willing to take that chance. I cannot focus on my own needs and well being with H in the house at this point.
I hope he wakes up some day and realizes all that he has risked and all that he will lose. Maybe he will, maybe he won't, but right now I need to focus on me and our 3 grown children.
