Holy crap GH.... 6-7 years.... arrragh. LOL But she did come out of it? Or you're still in it?
I'm very curious how it ends....... I've read where it's like a light bulb being turned on.... other places that it's a very slow and gradual process. Sometimes they realize how bad they've been, and other times how they don't remember everything (or everything from the life before).
For the toughening up and manliness improvement I'm reading "Be Irresistible" and "Unlock her legs" both by Dominic Mann and "What Women want in a Man" by Bruce Bryans. Amazing how much of these traits I've lost or suppressed during M.