Still Moving (Saying ILY Pt 7)

[mtb1981]

Got an email from my lawyer this morning. Sending a proposal to her attorney where I would get sole custody and she can continue with supervised visits. I take the house and all the debt. She takes her van and just goes away. No child support. No spousal support. I guess we'll see how it plays out...

I talked to STBXW a few days ago. She disguised it as wanting to talk to the kids. Sent a text saying she was wanting to talk to them and would be calling. I answered. She talked to them for a few minutes and then wanted to talk to me. She spent 20 minutes trying to justify what she did. Trying to say that she wasn't doing drugs and even though she failed the drug test it wasn't what it looked like. Blah blah blah… I just kinda zoned out. She wanted a response, but I didn't give her any. Finally just told her that if she wanted to talk to the kids she needed to because we were about to leave to go to the park (we hadn't planned on going, but after she started talking to me, I made an executive decision that we were and needed to leave soon). A few days later, I got a text from her asking if she was still getting the kids at the planned time. Of course she is. Why wouldn't she? Just another reason for her to try to get a response of some sort out of me. I responded with "Yes". Then I got a longwinded text about "I just wanted to make sure blah blah blah. I did not respond to that one. There was no reason to. I've noticed that it comes in waves. If she makes contact, she tries again soon after. Eventually bringing up some topic trying to get a rise out of me. I used to fall for that trick. Not anymore. I'm too busy enjoying life to play those games...

GAL for tonight is heading out of town for the evening. Got floor tickets to see Tool, one of my favorite bands, tonight with some friends. Got a hotel room and tomorrow off. Gonna be more fun than should be allowed. Hope everyone is doing well and DB'ing their butts off...