Very nice message from your H Grace. I am glad he took the time to express it and that it didn’t send you for a spin. I know what you mean about the fleeting “wonder if he is with her” thoughts. I used to get those with my STBXH too and it would send me spinning. It is definitely a sign of detaching when you have the thought and it just floats off into the sea of random thoughts we all have throughout the day. It certainly was that for me. Now I rarely think of him and when I do, it is just a random brief thought and no longer affects my day. It is indeed a great place to be and I am glad you feel yourself getting there. Hope you have a fantastic week full of love and laughter. (((HUGS)))
