I put myself in debt years ago maintaining the lifestyle that xw wanted, the divorce only compounded that debt. You mention I see in pretty much every response. My reply to that has not changed. I simply cannot afford it. It's literally an expensive hundreds of dollars a month that I do not even come close to having


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
-----------------------------------------------------
2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds