I dont tell her but no I wont go there because her new progressive friends there were in full support of her cheating and she was bragging to them about it. I want nothing to do with those people.
I know XW's enablers and don't hold a grudge towards them. They were simply telling her what she wanted to hear, and if it wasn't them it would have been someone else. No one can talk sense into a WAS.
Originally Posted by SoTorn
Even though I have moved on and I am detached, it still saddens me to know my kids will face splitting their time between us. Not looking forward to being alone a week at a time every other week. But I giess ill get used to it.
You will get used to it. It'll eventually become your "new normal". When you don't have them then make the most of that time by doing things you like to do and when you do have them you can be very focused on your time together with them. Losing them for half the time isn't as bad as it sounds. I mean yes it hurts at first but you do get used to it. The fact of the matter is they are going to grow up and move away some day anyway, so it's inevitable that eventually you have to get used to them not being there. Dropping my oldest off at college was almost as bad as BD. I am very proud of her for graduating and joining the working world and becoming independent and I love her to pieces, but I do miss the kid she used to be. That's life, we're in a constant state of transition.
