Three weeks from today is our 21st anniversary. This will be the first time there's a big calendar date for us since I was aware this MLC started. What do I do?!?!?
There's all kinds of space to put pressure on her (not intentionally).
I was going to make her a steak and crab legs dinner (and hope for some romance) and then all this happened.
On one hand, this is a special day and should be marked..... on the other hand, would the pressure of potentially sleeping with me really turn her off in her current MLC state? What about the gift? Flowers?
I hadn't even considered this until now. I would feel so bad as a husband for her to come home from work and I'm already at the gym or just saying bye I'm off to the gym.
I know most people here are separated from their spouse on the board (not me, not yet)..... but I'm sure many get a chance to be intimate at some point during one of the swinging emotions. Is it a setback to take it? Not to be too crude..... I'm looking and feeling better than I have in a long time, my aggression and testosterone are off the charts. I'd love to bang some sanity into her.
