You are alpha. You walk your own path for your own purpose. They can come if they want, or go in their own direction. Girls who are friends are pulling other girls for you to be romantically attracted to and sleep with. You don't go backwards in life from having a W to a "friend" Cut them lose and ghost them. Sad? Sad for who? Try looking at it from this perspective?... Regardless of what mistakes you made, (and I get it, there is some guilt there.) Who is the one leaving? You should feel sorry for the W for leaving a good thing and a good man. You want a quitter in your life? Someone who promised a lifetime that they would never bail on you? And when things got rough, and life threw a curveball, they up and quit, and work on themselves rather than the M?
I feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for my WAW. My mindset and abilities are getting stronger everyday while she's still fantasizing about creating her bucket list dream life while watching Game of Thrones...lol
That’s a great way to look at it. This situation causes us to change for the better. In the past month I have become a greater man in so many aspects of my life and I still have room for a lot of improvement. She will be the one missing out. That’s hilarious you mention that, here I am doing all kinds of healthy new things and she still just comes home and watches 6 hours of reality tv. It’s like they aren’t happy with their choices in life and instead of looking inward they look to blame the closest person to them. I’m not saying I’m not to blame for some things, but in no way am I to blame for all of her unhappiness. Thanks IHCLACS, you have a really great insight into our sitches.
