Yesterday the family went to my wife sisters place. My wife has pushed away her sister who she was closest to. She is upset because she wrote her a nasty email because of what she was doing to me. She is also upset because her sister wrote her a card that she wishes things could go back to Normal. The word Normal is what my wife hates so much because that what she thinks everyone just wants her to be normal but she feels like she is having an awakening and that things will not be normal based on the expectations of the family.
My wife sister decided to take my wife for a drive. My wife eventually broke down. Was saying stuff about me and how she feels like there is just too much distance between us now. She wishes she had feelings for me because it would make things so much easier. Basically my wife is deciding what to do, try to make things work with me or choose to divorce. I find this so crazy because my wife is the one that has created the extreme distance and is doing absolutely nothing to make things work.
I know my wife is depressed and lost. But what if she wishes she had feelings. How do I go about letting her go, sandis rules when it feels like we are 2 distance ships sailing away from each other.
I also feel like my wife’s conversation with her sister was trying to manipulate her as an ally. Basically there is nothing wrong with me, feel sorry for me.
Regardless I am happy my wife has reached out to her. Sister has my back. The only person my wife talks to is her twice divorced friend which I guarantee validates her feelings.
