Dealing with a WW and getting through divorce 6

[SoTorn]

Happy Mothers Day to all the moms on here.

Today would have been my 18th anniversary married to WW. Technically it is but D is pending.

STBXWW has been fairly nice to me. She asks odd questions. I chat with her when she talks to me. We were chatting about my weightloss yesterday and she actually told me that I look great. Thats a first. Usually she says something snarky like I look sick or something.

After we talked about my weightloss she straight up asked me to tell her about my new girlfriend. I respectfully declined to discuss those details of my life with her as I dont feel it is appropriate. Im not having a revenge affair. Im just doing what makes me happy and I moved on.

I have stepped up on the hot yoga and will be joining a new gym that trains with kettle bells to finish my physical transformation. I plan on leaning out to under 10% body fat and gaining about 10lbs of pure muscle. I will look amazing for the first time in my life.

STBXWW still makes random odd comments. She keeps telling me that I should go to her yoga studio and that I would like it. I dont tell her but no I wont go there because her new progressive friends there were in full support of her cheating and she was bragging to them about it. I want nothing to do with those people.

Plus I am happy at my studio as I get a great discount because one of my coworkers is my instructor.

Continuing to focus on myself and my kids. Seem to be getting along with STBXWW for once as opposed to the last 2+ years where she was constantly mistreating me and making me feel horrible about myself.

I should be signing the lease on my new home soon. Will be moving out June 1sr. I am looking forward to living my own life amd not seeing STBXWW every day.

Even though I have moved on and I am detached, it still saddens me to know my kids will face splitting their time between us. Not looking forward to being alone a week at a time every other week. But I giess ill get used to it.