Thank you everyone for all the wonderful advice. I am in London until Tuesday at the moment(together with her) but I will answer all as soon as I can. Most likely on Tuesday evening our time.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019