I am 38. I decided that I was not going to spend the remainder of my 30s hoping and waiting for this hateful, cheating version of my WW to recognize her issues, work on them, love herself again and decide to come back. Life is fleeting and each year of my life is just way to valuable to spend on someone who could hurt me so badly, so easily.
This entire thread is gold.
SoTorn your reply above is something I am printing and gluing to my wall!!
So well put, as if my inner mind was talking to me.
God, I love this forum!!
Last edited by gzabetas; 05/12/1912:15 PM.
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29