I'm sorry to break this to you - you went away on a business trip and when you came home she had suddenly changed. 9 times out of 10 this happens because she cheated or at least met someone during the time you were gone. Then she needs to justify her actions by thinking up all the things that are wrong with you.
I could be wrong but statistically, I'd bet money on it. Have you checked her cell phone records? If there are a zillion text messages to one number, that's likely the affair partner, whether she has actually slept with them or just having an emotional affair.
Sorry, I see Iīve been unclear. Iīm not naive to think she couldnīt cheat. I just meant I canīt tell her dad she has with no evidence. Iīve been away on business trips our entire relationship. That said, I donīt think she cheated while I was away. I have to add one important thing! When I came home, we argued about a small thing the first thing we did. I should have mentioned that from the beginning I see so sorry about that. She literally changed right after that.
If I was to guess, she still hasnīt cheated. Just flirted and had the desire for it. Do I think she will cheat? Absolutely possible and very likely.
I certainly donīt think she is having an affair, more likely it would be a ONS. Should the right(or wrong) person come along, I would be it is likely she could have an affair. I just donīt get that vibe from her now. Sheīs not secretive with her phone or laptop. She leaves both open in the living room when she goes to the toilet for example. I just donīt get the vibe from her that she is seeing a specific person. She doesnīt work overtime or anything like that either. I canīt check phone records because it doesnīt work like that here. Thatīs emailed to her bank which she has to log in to so. I donīt pay for her phone.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
