As wife treated her mother so bad for last few days, WW re-booked her flight and sent her back to home country yesterday and told her that she will call cops if she does not leave.( She was planned to leave in July). My MIL asked me to drop her to airport and was crying throughout the travel to the airport. She asked me to stay strong and was telling me that she hopes her daughter comes to her senses soon.I just validated her feelings as well and said let us hope she does.
So my wife is now back alone in her apartment. Also, she mentioned that she will be travelling for her job for whole next week, so D will be with me entire week. Happy that D will be with me whole week, but feeling sad as well as she will be asking for her mom throughout the week and won't see her. Also, not sure if this trip is business or vacation time with AP.
The only contact me and WW have is through text regarding our D and typically she messages. For information messages, I do not reply and for others, short replies like yes, no and ok etc.
When we exchange daughter, we don't talk at all and they seem to be very cold. She comes out of her apartment smiling (showing that she is happy to see her D) and I feel as if she is showing me that her life is all sorted and good now. I am not sure if I am doing it right by not talking at all (atleast i don't want to show coldness as per Sandi's rules)
I know detaching would mean that it shouldn't matter to me, but it is difficult. Just venting out here.
As tomorrow is mother's day and D's day with me, should I message WW and ask if she would like to have D with her for some time tomorrow? Also, should I do anything else regarding Mothers day? Like creating a card from our Ds side and giving WW that?
Would be looking for advice as always and thanks in advance for the words of wisdom you all provide. Hope I was here sooner.
