Okay I had a little confusion then, and I have almost finished reading DR.
So currently I wouldn’t say I am doing LRT in the sense that my W and I are having sometimes longer conversations. I am not initiating anything though and am not being very brief with her. When she asks what I am doing for GAL I usually answer truthfully but briefly. When she asks what I’ve been doing I usually tell her.
So I suppose when she moves out I should become much briefer with her? Such as if she asks what I’ve been up to then I should keep it short and not go into too much detail?
In my sitch , my W has warmed up to me quite a bit since BD and it seems that if I am brief with her she doesn’t react as well as if I am more detailed.
Also what are your thoughts on me going to dinner for mother’s day with my W and MIL and my S? They invited me.
