Ok so no replies yet but I think I´ve come to a conclusion anyway.
After reading what some poor souls have been through here and many other forums, I don´t think I can go through that. I love her so much but this has been over 3 months of agony. I can detach but right now I´m more pretending to in front of her. I still miss her and hate every moment of being in this situation.
Good fake it until you make it.
Originally Posted by BenB
I already have but I can sense it´s not real, I don´t want to go out and do things, I want to be with her. So I think for me to actually want to GAL I have to end this and move on.
If that is what you must do then I suggest you try it. I also will say that it does not stop you from going through the stages of grief, their is no avoiding that. You will need to do that for the relationship no matter what.
Thank you Cadet, I am unusually calm about this at the moment but I think that´s just for now. When and if it´s truly over, grief will surely hit me. I´ll post again here soon
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
