New to DB and (W)MLC, never thought it'd be me

[SoTorn]

My WW started hanging out with women that were going through divorce and already divorced as well. They surround themselves with like minded people who validate their feelings which helps them justify what they are doing.

My WW is just barely calming down now. I was literally her enemy for about eight months. She treated me as such. I dropped the rope and never looked back. I was very hurt and not doing well from August 2018 through December 2018. But I let her go.

I have moved on and will be moving out on the 1st. Im looking forward to it. Just now my STBXWW is noticing that I am a much different person than she convinced herself I was. But its too late. She pushed me away too far and now I dont want to remain married. She hasnt hinted that she does either, but even if she wanted to I wouldnt get nack with someone who thinks its ok to have extramarital sex and mistreat the man who loved and supported them for two decades so poorly.

Im just hoping to have a minimal contact cordial co-parenting relationship with her. Thats it. Plenty of other fish in the sea. Plenty that would never lose sight of their values and morals.

Its a marathon and not a race. Even if we end up D, the finish line is loving ourselves and being content that we are the best version of ourselves that we can be.