Man you guys are seriously hitting a serious cord with everything you said here. Glad to know well I shouldn't say glad relieved is more like it to know that I'm not the only one with these feelings and for the same reasons
Definitely not alone. I think most people are here because they value their marriage and family and think those things are worth saving.
In my mind there is a clear path to having a healthier marriage and being happy again. But it's only in my mind. In her mind, she's having fun, fun, fun and I'm yesterday's news.
M 44, W 32 T 10, M 8 D 2 Oct '18: Fantasy affair with OW1 (yes, W) Feb '19: Inseparable from new lesbian BFF Still live together but a lot of tension
