Maika and J when the moms only have the kids 50 percent of the time and they put dating first it tells you something
I totally agree with you. I sometimes wonder if she's having a MLC in some ways. She basically 'rediscovered' herself and did everything she wanted to do as she 'missed' out on that in her life. I almost wanted to ask her if she doesn't want custody of the children during our separation agreement process. Like are the kids bumming out her life and what she wants to do? I had no problem taking full custody and I still don't. Her priorities at the very least are out of whack and she's damaging her R with the kids. But that's on her to deal with as kids grow older, it will become even more apparent.
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I do know when me XW first moved out she was all about dating and partying when she didn't have the kids.
My XW definitely did her share of that as well. Now it's all blended family full steam. It's just incredulous to watch it. Like that was the better option than working things out with me when there was that space to recon.
