Hi Alison,
I have read quite a bit of your sitch but have been hesitant to reply. I want to be mindful of your feelings during this difficult time. So instead of weighing in I thought I would ask you a few questions if that’s alright. If not, that is fine too.

Have you learned/read much on emotional abuse or psychological abuse?
Do you see any parallels in your own M?
Is it possible that DB and other good M saving techniques are not affective when there is abuse involved?

I hope I’m not overstepping here. I was in an abusive R for 6 years. Never violent but a terrible sitch. I didn’t see it when I was in it. I couldn’t. Many, many years later, I see it for what it was now. I wish I had gotten out sooner ...

Warmly,
Buy

Last edited by BluWave; 05/10/19 05:11 PM.
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