I don't think so.... well, not yet. Her mother took off when she was young, and W and her younger sis were scarred for life. It was only five - seven years ago or so that she forgave her mom for what she did to them (leaving them and running off with another man). I know this increases the risk factor for an A dramatically with her. That understanding is very sobering. I can either learn to deal with it beforehand, or be absolutely destroyed later. Eyes wide open.
She is on the phone all the time, which drives me nuts but that's the world we live in now. I would love to go back to landlines. Mostly she plays mindless puzzle games to relax her mind, funny videos on facebook or chatting with her mom or sis.... she's had sleeping problems due to stress for a while now. I've noticed that since being Put On Notice and the BD she is sleeping better. At least there's that. It makes me wonder if that's normal..... release stress (into me) and then sleep good.
She isn't secretive about her phone, but she normally has it. I've never looked at her phone and I never will. By the same token, she's never looked at mine. We've always trusted each other.
I haven't seen anything to suggest an A, but really she travels a lot for work. If she has an A I doubt it would be local and I will never know.
