I met the Dr. out on a Wednesday night for a couple of drinks about 3 miles from our house. We sat at the bar, chatted for about 2.5 hours and then made out in the parking lot for a few minutes. Our next date was 3 days later on a Saturday night. Meet him during the middle of the week for date 1 and if you like each other then have your second date on a prime time Friday or Saturday night.

I don't do coffee dates in the middle of the day because it is not romantic.

You can always Uber if you don't want to drive. I did not suggest to the Dr. or pick her up at her house until date #4.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018