Well we already paid for after school care for next year which is roughly $2800 total for both kids. We do get a discount since my XW is a teacher. The year after my oldest will be in 6th grade and I only live about 1 mile from her middle school so maybe then we will feel comfortable having her walk home from school. IDK.
Intentional or not there have been times where my oldest has tried to call, text, facetime, etc. and my XW has not picked up the phone or returned the call in 5 to 10 minutes. Maybe distracted is a better term but it is frustrating to me when my daughter can't reach her mom. We have a close family friend tell me that if she needs something I am the first person she calls out of the two because she knows I will always answer or respond.
My XW is a good mom don't get me wrong. Her and I just have different philosophies/thoughts on playing sports. I am very competitive, want them to excel and hopefully have a chance to play in high school. My XW on the other hand has no problem with them playing, but sees it as just another activity for them to be active. We just have different philosophies on it. She really didn't care before, she let that be my domain with the girls but now that we are Divorced she is starting to express her opinion about it since some of the burden now falls on her shoulders.
I saw the Dr. on Tuesday night for a couple of hours for one of our weekly hook up sessions after her son goes to bed. Her drug reps took her out to dinner last night at a high end steak house and since she doesn't eat steak she got a to go bag for me. Needless to say she texted me when she was on her way home, asked me if she could come over 15 minutes as she had to get home to because she had a sitter. I mean what a Girlfriend. She comes for a 15 minute quickie plus she brings me steak!!!! I feel like a king.
We are going out to her ranch tonight to hang out and then back home tomorrow. Not sure what we will do tomorrow night but we may just stay in and chill. Next week will be 4 months and the 3 H's are still in effect. She made a comment that one of her friends wants to meet me and so far neither one of us have met anyone else in our lives. It's just been her and I hanging out, hooking up, and having fun.
