Divorce is still pending. WW has actually calmed down a lot. I have done my best to keep DB, for me of course, while looking for a place to live. The market in my town is ridiculous right now. 15+ applicants for every rental and rentals going for double what the mortgage would be on the same home.
I have gotten a lot of "you are different now" "you do this differently " etc comments from STBXWW. Funny how she finally acknowledges that I am different as I am heading out the door. Its ok, shes been nice actually. Her noticing im different seems to have gotten her to a point where she can be nice actually. Thats perfect. I hope we can keep it nice and coparent nicely.
I decided to throw a hail mary and post on the Nextdoor app asking anyone if they knew someone renting in my area. I got lucky and some lady is moving for her job soon and was stressing about what she was going to do with her house. I went and saw the house. Its perfect and its literally in my kids same achool dostrict five minutes from my first house. Plus the price is perfect and its furnished with utilities paid for the price.
Hallelujah!!! So I am working out the details with the owner and will be moving June 1st. I havent told WW and wont until I sign the lease and put the deposit down. I am excited to be moving on and putting this all behind me. I feel great.
GAL still in full effect. I do dinner with all three kids every other week. Hot Yoga 3x per week. I am leaning out nicely. My goal is to see my abs by summer. I think I will hit that goal. Two new classes at school start on the 14th. Life will be full and fulfilling. Thank god.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019