I have two minor kids. Granted they are 12 and 16. However, I make plans with them. Take them to the movies, gokarting, dinner etc. I make a lot of plans that include my kids and also by myself. I make sure my kids spend time with my WW because they need their mom, even if she is the cause of our family being destroyed.
That is good. My kids are always included in what I do. I can just see H getting mad because I have used the kids as pawns to drive them away from him. He will resent that, even though it's just me and the kids getting out of the house away from him.
