She's been planning to go back to work 1-2 days a week. She gets a lot of personal fulfillment out of her work, and I've been supportive of those plans. One time she estimated how much she could make in 1 day and I think I joked that she could work FT and I could stay home because we'd make more. Kind of thoughtless, intended as a joke, but maybe more hurtful than I realized. Other than that I've been supportive in my comments, telling her there is no pressure financially, listening to her talk about the best schedule. So I really don't know.
Regardless, I'm not worried about the "documentation." I'm hurt by the implication that she's documenting everything I do and say.
