So it’s been a while. Nothing eventful to really post. I’m kind of on a plateau in life. No conflict or issues, which is good.

I’m feeling the desire to get back out there and date again. I would like to have someone to share my life with and talk to and think about.

I want to put a dating profile back up, but I’m gonna be super busy the next couple of weekends so I should probably wait. I think it’s safer to go with a paid for site then a free one? Maybe it weeds out people that are not really serious - although I heard that often time, the same men I would meet that sign up for the paid also sign up for the one you don’t have to pay for so I could potentially save 20 bucks a month doing the free one?

I have been reading some of the profiles (both men and women) to see what’s out there. Very few people put out unique profiles. They all kind of say the same thing. And then others write that they are not spending time writing up a big profile - as the only way to know if you will like someone is by meeting them. Which is true too. Someone could just be a really good writer or have a friend that’s a really good writer. But a hood profile hooks me more then good pics do. Ugh. I’m gonna have to start collecting recent pics of myself too. I always worry that people at work or patients are gonna recognize me from an OLD site as well. I feel embarrassed.

I did it once before but met someone super quick and never went out on more then 2 meetups. So it will still be new to me.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer